If the disagreement is so strong then we can figure not every Christian will go along with him; some will just not be convinced and will continue to date. As Christians we are obligated to follow Romans 14-15:7 allowing different Christians to live out their lives according to their best understanding of God's will, even if some don't understand it as well as others.
But we are also to allow Christians to marry in order to avoid fornication.
We can't just tell a brother to go have his faith by himself, because then he won't be able to court and get married.
We can't tell him to adopt an incompatible script as we are to let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind. The fine print resolution is given us in Judges in the Benjamite War as I point out in the second chapter of my ourtship book.
On the other side he looks in awe at marriage, he respects it, and he leaves God's institution alone, doesn't try to modify it.Group social interactions and parents' counsel are in service to the dating couple's learning and deciding interactions, not meant to replace them.Joshua Harris represents a segment of Christians who have taken upon themselves the critique of dating practice, fulfilling the maxim: , a paraphrase so convoluted it leaves one wondering what the apostle actually said.He said, "It doesn't matter," and I told him small things do matter.We are told, "You can't judge a book by its cover"—it doesn't matter.Furthermore, the subject itself is complex enough to throw the uninformed. There's an important concept given succinctly in William Simon / John H.Gagnon, behavior, not the masked expression of primordial drive.What happens then when there is a mismatch between the sexes on the psychosexual scripts of courtship?Say a lot of brothers have a more mature understanding while a lot of sisters an immature one and these are not compatible with each other.If there are too few women available there, then plan is to pick one up at a dance where liberty rules and the churches should allow it as they need to let him marry, and, after all, the church is not being compromised when he goes off to do his thing in good conscience.It would have been good for doesn't hate girls but he likens dating them to eating junk food.