They were characteristics of related to different pathways to certainty more than the mechanisms for certainty.
I’ve left them out because they’re not relevant to this discussion but if you want to understand them more, you can learn about the different pathways to certainty in Endgame.
“Well, definitely not at either end but more towards the feminine side I guess.” “Okay, good.” I said, smiling.
“After birth, there are some women who strongly develop their masculine side by seeking their sense of certainty through taking action.
—————- If you’re an average guy, trying his best to get ahead in life — with work, with friends, and with women — you might struggle with last category. Understanding women is simple and straight forward.
If you want to get a full understanding of these concepts, how they relate to meeting and attracting women, and how you can use them to become the Man of your dreams, check out Endgame here. This is at the core of just about every single one of these desires. It’s the most crucial part, and I’ll explain that later, but it’s still only one part. There’s another path that people crave–uncertainty.” This is where I lost most people “Hang on. Certainty is about feeling safe in the present moment and uncertainty is not knowing what’s going to happen in the future.” ———————– ———————– “Every single baby starts out the same gender in the womb.
So how do you think these things, this power, money, or fame, make women feel? How do you think a woman feels when she’s around a guy with power? She’d feel looked after–safe and secure.” “Good, now how about a guy with money? The hormone that drives a baby’s development in the womb up to the week eight mark is estrogen.Are you more attracted to career driven women who’re really aggressive, really into football, like to get in fist fights, drink beer, and ride in bikie gangs, or are you into pretty, giggly, delicate, feminine women?Which end of the spectrum are the women you’re attracted to closer to?” He looked cautiously around the cafe before he leaned forward and whispered, “Umm. ” I leaned forward and did my best impersonation of an interrogating police officer “Yes.Whatever you say is going in your file–for life.” “Oh,” he said, sitting back, upright in his chair.In a female baby, this development continues all the way through their gestation period and continues to drive their development all the way through their life.” “This isn’t the case in male babies. Estrogen production is reduced dramatically and testosterone floods into the brain. A lot of the connections between the two hemispheres are cut and instead of directing resources to the communication areas, they’re instead directed to the aggression and sex drive areas of the brain.These are the areas that drive competitiveness and action.” “The difference between the two paths isn’t small. And it shapes the way females and males engage their world, right from birth.” I could see that Steven understood, but his blank stare told me he was about to say something.———————– “Well, they’re not actually as confusing as they seem on the surface. Some want rich men, some want powerful men, some want to date celebrities. When she feels safe, secure, free, certain that everything’s going to be okay, she feels happy. You just said people crave certainty, and now you’re saying that they crave uncertainty. Certainty is knowing that everything is going to be okay. Certainty is the perception that everything’s going to be okay, knowing that the roller coaster is going to get you back to the start in one piece. There’s no difference between male and female babies, we’re all female.It can seem really confusing, right until you start to dig a little bit under the surface. Up until a few minutes ago, you thought you were looking at a whole lot of different issues in your life. I have no idea what it could be but I’m willing to listen.” “Whoever said that women just want these things, didn’t really understand why people want things. Women want the things they do because of the way they make them feel, just like you do. She wouldn’t have to worry about how she was getting home or getting stuck anywhere because he could look after it. Did you sprinkle a little too much crack on your cereal this morning? ” His blank stare told me that he was actually asking a serious question. Uncertainty is the not knowing what’s going to happen next. Uncertainty is not knowing what’s going to happen on your trip around the track. I did, you did, Sylvester Stallone did, and we all did.Feminine women operate from a fundamentally different place than Masculine men.Masculine men rely on their ability to take action and make things happen to experience certainty.