Related: 5 Things Women Expect From Men (That Sabotage Their Chances At Love) Frequently, men would drop out after one, two, or three dates.
Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.
I went out on a blind date with him and then proceeded to date both men for about five weeks until I could see how things would shake out with each of them.
This saved me because even though I liked Geoff a lot, Paul was a much better match for me. Related: 5 Things Strong Women Do That Attract QUALITY Men (And Keep Them Interested!
Multiple dating makes dating messier even though the people that do it often think it makes it easier because it keeps them out of a relationship, let’s them check out lots of options at once instead of doing one person at a time, but it can also be a protective measure for ensuring that you don’t get close enough to anyone.
That's how heartbreak happens — when you think you've found "the one" after two dates, and then he never calls again.
He was a really nice guy, and I was totally enjoying getting to know him.
But I met Paul's sister who thought her brother would like me.
So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one guy at a time is a wise idea.
As their search for love heats up, suddenly there are multiple men who are interested in them, and they don't know how to handle it.