I think you need to let this one go and allow the Lord to deal with her directly.If she were to break up with this guy, you do not want to be the rebound boyfriend. Build your own friendships (that are following the Lord), praying and asking God if there is anything in yourself that needs to change.
Ask them if there is anything in your personality, approach, walk with the Lord that stands out in such a way that could push girls away.She will need some time with God alone to sort her own walk and decisions. Make changes including picking women that are seeking the Lord as you are. Be encouraged that as you continue to grow in your walk, God will reveal the right paths and the right women to pursue.Cliff Young, a contributing writer and a veteran single of many decades.In addition to teaching, Trek to Teach strengthens local communities by helping schools build infrastructure, paint their classrooms, and find furniture.Click below to let us know you read this article, and wiki How will donate to Trek to Teach on your behalf.Ultimately we all want someone to walk alongside us in life, not someone to push, pull or make us into who they want us to be.As God created each of us uniquely to serve many roles in life, He also created (for most of us) someone to do it with.Assessing the Situation Talking to Her Being Respectful Community Q&A It happens all of the time: you meet a girl who is perfect for you, only to find out that she already has a boyfriend.The situation may seem hopeless, but there are ways to approach the situation tactfully.While we may feel we are OK, others who care about us may see something different.Their perspective could give insight on some things you could change so that you do get more women to respond in a positive manner. While I do think your approach was great, going on a hike and talking with her, my concern is your pursuit with someone who is already dating someone.